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Big Plans-With a
Major Modification
Dick Binford has been a warm, wonderful and generous friend
for years. Then recently he came with an unbelievably wonderful offer. He was
inviting Jane and me together with Pr. Fred Lubs and his wife Ruth to join him
(Dick) for a week at Maui as his guests. Wow! That was an invitation to savor
and readily accept. Then came a change, which even he did not anticipate when
he first made the offer. He laid it out “I am getting married to Cheryl. We
want you to perform the wedding ceremony and now there will be six of us on
that Maui trip!” Well, being part of his and Cheryl’s honeymoon was a new
angle. So we quickly offered to modify the plans so that the two of them would
not have 2 retired ministers (plus spouses) along for this great experience.
Both he and Cheryl, however, remained cool and said “Come along. It will be great.
We will figure out enough one on one time and space for it all to work.” And
they did!
A Simple Yet
Perfect Wedding
The wedding was held on Sunday evening at the Rancho
Bernardo Inn. All was beautifully and carefully arranged and came off as
planned. The site was a secluded outdoor space with green grass and lovely
flowers with white chairs neatly arranged. Guests arrived on time, excited to
support this new relationship. The simple procession down the grassy aisle went
as planned with one wonderful little exception. At first the two flower girls were
a bit reluctant, then they enthusiastically spread the blossoms. And when they
realized that their supply of blossoms would run out before they got to the
front they simple went back, picked up some the strewn ones, and again
delicately dropped them down the aisle. And then spying some more blossoms on
nearby plants they picked some from there to replenish their supply.
The ceremony was direct and simple. The readings were
attended to, the prayers spoken, the vows made, the rings exchanged, all accompanied
by beautiful harp music. The newly married couple had their first public kiss
and those assembled cheered.
The spirit at the reception with many drink and appetizer
choices continued the warm spirit as family and friends wished the new couple
an overflowing abundance of joy. There was a generous flow of hugs, tears well
wishes and affirmations, not a single one of which was missed by the very
professional photographer who got it all recorded.
The wedding dinner was just right for group of 42 gathered
around tables with assigned seats and carefully served steak and fish with all
the great accompaniments, with beverages of choice flowing freely, toasts
earnestly made and concluded with special marriage cup cakes!
At 10:30 the next morning family and friends from out of
town were treated to a great breakfast on the patio overlooking the tenth green
of the golf course below. Once more the sentiments of joy and anticipation
stirred through the guests.
First Class to Maui
On Tuesday Jane and I joined Dick and Cheryl in their
beautiful downtown San Diego condo where some of us watched the World Series
game in which Padres hung on to defeat the Red Sox in 13 innings. But Dick was
knocking on our door by 5:30 am the next morning because it was time to head to
the airport for the flight to Maui.
And what a ride it was. Outstanding first class on Hawaiian
Airlines. The two flight attendants in the First Class cabin were unusually
solicitous. They made us feel like each one of us was the exclusive object of
their attention. Even when I thought I really did not need another mai tai it
was furnished and I succumbed to the polite pressure of having to endure it. It
might be a 5-hour flight but it went so smoothly that I wasn’t even sure I
wanted to get off.
Room With a View -
And Then Some
Dick had made reservations for all of us at the Wailea Beach
Resort Condo, D110 to be specific. It had three bedrooms, beautiful living
room, full (very full) kitchen, stocked with every conceivable utensil
including popcorn popper, waffle iron, three coffee makers, and a bar loaded
with name brand drinks, outdoor grills etc. etc. Outside the door we were
greeted by a wonderful sitting and viewing area with a flowing waterfall off to
the right and the beautiful beach ahead. There was the pool, the beach, the ocean
and the walkways with piles of large fresh white fluffy towels at every corner.
Key Events
LUAU. Among the many wonderful events what stands out most
is the private Luau that Dick arranged for us at the Wailea Golf Club
Restaurant. It was strictly for the six of us. When we arrived the table on the
outdoor deck was waiting-but we were invited in for pre-luau mai tais and
appetizers
There was a wonderful two male music ensemble playing a uke
and a guitar. They sang and played for the full two hours we were there without
repeating any number, and they were good, singing at just the right volume,
choosing sentimental and appropriate music and ending with a beautiful
rendition of “Can’t Help Falling In Love
With You”.
They were easy to dance to. Even I (who cannot possible
dance even the simplest step) stood up and hugged Jane and once in awhile moved
my feet a bit. It didn’t matter; it was love.
Then came the hula dancing pair. When they came to chat with
us after their perfect performance we learned they were husband and wife and
their words and body motions were just right for couples, whether newly married
or married for 67 years!
It kept coming. This time an incredibly agile and gifted
fire dancer who swirled the flaming torches about him in an amazing array of
motions and angles. He, too, came to chat with us afterwards and that, too, was
interesting.
All of this was accompanied by drinks and a mouth-watering
eight (8) course dinner described in detail below.
NOT QUITE TO THE MOUNTAIN TOP. As was the case on several occasions
the two guest couples went out on their own while the newly married two-some
had the opportunity to follow their own wishes. Fred, Ruth, Jane and I decided
to go to the top of Haleakala to see the volcano site. Unfortunately as we
neared the top we realized that the peak was completely enveloped by clouds. We
went to the National Park Store and enjoyed reading about it and picking up a
few souvenirs. With some effort we again found a great place to eat while
admiring a still different view of appealing scenery
TOUR OF LANAI AND KIHEI. Traveling on well-traveled and very
narrow one-lane roads made for excitement and enjoyment.
Always there was time for long walks on the beach, lounging
on the shore, enjoying the pools or just reading Kindle, interrupted only by
our choice of watching the World Series with ups and downs of the Dodger
efforts cheered on by Cheryl in her newly gifted Dodger cap
And Don’t Forget the Golf. The Wailea Golf Club offers three
great course and we played two of them. The first day on the Gold turned into
disaster for me. That course must have over 100 sand traps and I found at least
20 of them. Fred hit the longest drives (some of which landed in the fairway)
and Dick just hung in there to get the low score. When we played the Emerald
Course my partners felt compassion for this old man and let him play the
forward tees. That worked great for me and I actually ended up with five 3’s on
the scorecard accurately recorded by Cheryl, and shot my age! On the once a
year occasion when I shoot my age I always buy the pitchers of beers but when I
wanted to do that at the Club House we were told that on Maui the county does
not allow serving beer by the pitcher. We adjusted quickly and well within that
restriction managed to celebrate the day.
LOOKING AND FEELING BEAUTIFUL. While we were playing our
first round of golf the women were having a very special good time. Dick had
arranged an appointment for them to get the full treatment at a fancy spa. So they
got it all, steam and cream and tender care!
FOOD! FOOD! FOOD! What’s a vacation without special food - and
we had plenty. Dick had asked me to grill steak the first evening. I was
worried about it but carefully packed my special steak marinade in my checked
bag and it went safely through all the checks points. We picked up steaks and
they actually turned out great. One night Dick made a great spaghetti dish. The
Lubs found some delicious pizzas to bring in. Brunch at the Marriott courtesy
of Ruth and Fred was special and I had my first ever Maui Bloody Mary with a
crispy slice of fried bacon as a swizzle stick. We ended our stay by going to
the Far East for a simple Thai meal as our final selection. Previous to that we
enjoyed the meal of a lifetime hosted by Cheryl at Momma’s Fish House. The
ambiance there is a very special conglomerate of half a dozen styles. The menu
lists pages and pages and the food is absolutely unique. We all had wonderful
multi-course meals. My fabulous entre was mahi and other fish in a perfect
curry sauce all mingled with fresh and tasteful vegetables. To say “ it was
marvelous” is an understatement.
And there were all those homemade cookies. Jane brought a
big batch of peanut butter cookies. Ruth brought blueberry muffin cookies. They
disappeared so quickly that a trip was made to the grocery for the mix for lots
more cookies. They smelled great when they were in the oven and tasted even
better when they were in our mouths.
I will close the section on food by just listing the dishes
served at the Luau. Here it is: Appetizer: Ahi Cake with Kula Greens and Wasabi
Remoulade. Entrees: Macadamia Nut Crusted Fresh Catch with Pineapple Salsa
accompanied by Kalua Pork Steamed Buns, followed by Hosin Marinated Short Ribs
of Beef with Mushrooms, and Wok Seared Vegetables in Curry Sauce with Lop Cheung
Fried Rice and Purple Sweet Potato Mash on the side. All ended up with Selected
Sweets! (And the servings were so generous we took food home for the next 4
days!
BUMPS ALONG THE ROAD Every ride needs a bump or two to help
appreciate the smooth parts. We were disappointed not to see the volcano. More
importantly Jane caught a really bad cold and her cough made her draw upon deep
resources within her resilient self to take in as much as possible. Dick and
Cheryl did a little joy riding off the main drag and were greeted by a newly
arrived boulder on the road, which extended a very firm welcome to them on the
front right bumper of their car. The Dodgers disappointed. But what is that
among the many joys, comfort, pleasures and just good times we had on Maui
Yes indeed, AN UNFORGETTABLE MAUI EXPERIENCE
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