Sunday, July 7, 2019

Reflections On A Long And Satisfying Life No. 64: Ebenezer Thankoffering (Part III): Impact On Family


In my previous BLOGS I have commented upon my work on the staff for the EBENEZER Thankoffering. This BLOG will reflect upon how assuming that position affected our family. As indicated in Part I of this series we suddenly found ourselves resettling in the Chicago area and specifically on Iowa Street in the suburb of Maywood.

We found a very supportive community of colleagues and friends. A woman named Mable Warneke whom we had first met when she was a tourist visiting us in Hong Kong was always there. She was aware of Jane’s limitations because of her health. Mrs. Warnke brought us many household appliances. She frequently brought food. She helped identify sources for medical prescriptions, she came to the house and did most of the clothes ironing which was still required in those says. Whatever was needed she provided.

The wives of faculty member of Concordia Teachers College-River Forest (now Concordia University Chicago) took turns baby-sitting when Jane had medical appointments, introduced us to the best places for shopping, provided items for our house to replace those left behind in Hong Kong. The pastors and teachers of St. Paul’s Lutheran Church and School in Melrose Park just did whatever was needed, especially also helping our kids move from a British to an American school system.

Of course there were challenges, many of them similar to what other people face and still face. My duties took me away from home a great deal, often by plane. This became painfully clear one day when Jane pointed out an airplane that was overhead. Son Tim who was about 5 years of age at the time said, “I hate airplanes!” Jane replied, “You don’t like airplanes?” Tim’s response, “I don’t like airplanes at all. They always take my Father away from me.”

We chose to add another challenge. Three of our kids went to Texas to spend Christmas with Grandma and Grandpa Kieschnick. Just before returning we got a long distance phone call with an urgent plea, “We have just found the most wonderful, the cutest, the most loving little dog in the world. Can we bring him home? Please, Please!” We explained it would be hard to get the dog on the plane. There was no yard or fence where we lived etc. etc. Two day later Tex was happily rampaging through our house. Unfortunately he also liked to rampage in the neighborhood and slipped out any moment a door was left often. It became a ritual. The phone call to Jane” Mrs. Kieschnick, your dog is again, here at school.”  I had the car at the office so ailing Jane walked that three-quarters miles to the school, rain or shine, with toddler John in a stroller, to pick up “that cute little MONSTER”.

Yet, all in all, our days in the Chicago area were good days. Later our first grandchild was born there to daughter Peggy. And son David lived happily in Chicago for some 20 years. Chicago is still my kind of town! 



Reflections On A Long And Satisfying Life No. 63: Ebenezer Thankoffering (Part II



As mentioned in Part I the use of a computer system for a church wide mailing was a new and unheard of endeavour in 1965.When I was taken to the IBM centre which we contracted to do this task for us I was shown a line of computers that stretched some 30 feet long and 6 feet high. The close to 2 million names, addresses and birthdates were all entered via punch cards. There were many errors and a near full time person worked for months just to make the corrections

In the year prior to the actual Offerings I worked to establish and support the effort’s organizational structure. It was wonderful to identify and support a vast cadre of outstanding laymen (and they were all men) around the country. I spoke at District Conventions from Edmonton to New York to Orlando to Los Angeles to Little Rock   and many in between.

Co-workers Dave Stein, Robert Hopmann, Max Heinz and Donna Behnken were capable and marvelous co-workers. Marty Koehneke kept us strong and exemplified faith and courage.

As soon as the offering mailing began to roll in we discovered a significant problem. The return envelopes had poor sealing wax and some envelopes returned open-so we did not know if we loAst any contributions. We fixed that.

Many congregations did a great job of celebrating members’ birthdays and we received wonderful stories of grateful expressions. However, we were deeply disappointed at both the rate of return and the size of the average gift. At the end of the effort we had raised some $15 million

Some time after the effort the official magazine of the LCMS declared our work “a disastrous debacle” (or something like that) because it failed to reach our goal of $40 million. I have a different view. Those $15 million of 1965 have a 2019 equivalency of some $120,000,000. A significant moment came to me several years later. The Chinese Headmaster of Concordia Lutheran School in Taiwan came to embrace me with the words “Sir, I cannot thank you enough for your fund raising efforts. Because of EBENEZER we were able to build our entire school-complete with dormitories for live-in students. We are now one of the premier schools in all of Taiwan teaching students English and the Christian faith.” And because of the money we raised many others throughout the world can still daily exclaim “EBENEZER. The Lord has helped us hitherto.”


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