Tuesday, November 14, 2017

90th Birthday Celebration in Hong Kong Part 1: Celebration

I am not sure how my friends in Hong Kong heard that I was due to celebrate my 90th birthday on December 10. But when they heard they immediately determined that part of that celebration needed to be in Hong Kong with them as hosts. So they made all the arrangements and I gladly accepted being there November 1 to November7. Jane felt the trip would be too much for her (and she was right) so son Tim accompanied me and that was also a good decision as his youth and internet skills made for very smooth international and local travel.

When I accepted my friends’ kind invitation I had only one instruction:” Keep it simple.” I suggested 11 names of people with whom I thought it would be extra nice to have a good Chinese birthday. We would eat in a room at the hotel and they would come get me for my dinner. I was told to be ready for dinner on the day after my arrival.

They came to my room at the appointed time. When I was escorted to the dining room I was greeted by a roomful of celebrants, 112 person-strong in a brightly decorated room. They were all waiting for me. A very large birthday candle on a very, very large birthday cake was ignited and the group broke into a joyous version of Happy Birthday, first in English and then in Chinese and the celebration was on

In the midst of an incredible ten course meal accompanied by free-flowing wine the program flowed- very ably emceed by Paul Chan Sing Kong-almost all in English! There was a “Biography of Mel Kieschnick Contest” at each table. Then each table selected one word to describe me. A spokesperson from each table came forward and explained why that word was chosen. Key words included trust, leader, farmer, inspiration, mentor, visionary  etc. etc. Each speaker at the podium brought with him/her a gift (more about that later) and made a 3 minute speech which the master of ceremonies had a very difficult, yet humorous time controlling. After each little speech the entire table of 12 persons came forward and a group picture was taken-and I had the opportunity to greet for a second or two each of the 112 wonderful guests. Of course, I was expected to make a speech, which I joyfully did. 

The evening ended when I was presented with a very large artistically designed Happy 90 Birthday Card with many hand-drawn birthday candles and a very large folded poster which contained a picture of each table with each of the guests having signed their name.

After a rousing “ Old Lang Syne” sung twice and an even more joyous” Praise God From Whom All Blessings Flow”, the glorious party came to an end.

The second party, too, was a surprise. One of my hosts John Chu had told me that he was accompanying Tim and me to Concordia Church on Sunday morning for Sunday morning worship with that congregation. I was especially pleased with that as so many years ago I had worshipped with that congregation, helped write its first constitution


We got stuck in traffic crossing the harbor between Hong Kong Island and Kowloon and arrived at church late. The service was already under way. Of course we were escorted to the front row. The entire service was in Chinese but they had prepared an English Order of Worship and an outline of the sermon to help Tim (and me follow). After the service there were speeches and then opportunity for my former students-including also 4 who (some with tears in their eyes) told me they learned to read and write in a simple little evening school I had organized some 50 years ago, Then a big congregation dinner followed. The catered food (Chinese) was wonderful. Naturally there had be another gift-giving ceremony-and hundreds of photos as everyone had a cell phone camera and was anxious to record one more memory!

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