I remember seventeen year old son David agreeing that I could join him
as we headed toward the U of M campus to experience my one and only rock
concert. We were still quite a ways off when the aroma of smoking weed filled
the atmosphere.
Peggy went to a public junior high. She said that she had to learn which
girls’ bathroom to avoid and when to say “Hi” walking down a corridor and when
to just look straight ahead. But she had found the one rest room, which was
safe to use, and she always found that. On the other hand I recall a different
very good experience with Peggy. It was a Saturday night and she had attended a
house party with friends and when it was time to be over I drove and picked her
up. As I watched he partygoers leave I noticed that the youth seemed to all be
black-and a few Chinese. When Peggy got into the car I asked her, “Where you
the only white person at this party?” She reflected for a moment, surprised by
my question, and then said, “Yes, dad, I guess I was. I never noticed.”
Ann Arbor provided the first opportunity for son Tim to play Little
League baseball and I was always impressed by the energy and enthusiasm he
brought to that and to the basketball court of St. Paul’s Lutheran School.
What he lacked in size he made up for with energy, zest and real commitment to
the game. I also clearly recall two goals he had at the time, namely, to play
on the U of M football team and to then also play in the U of M Marching Band
for the half-time show.
Liz had to endure a very authoritarian teacher who forced her into silence
that was not over until she finally got Mrs. Foelber as her teacher and that
was great. Liz’s flute-playing was exceptional and she was often in concerts
John had a ball as he joined his best friend Bruce as they explored and
built fortresses in the big open-spaced field just across the street from our
home. I also recall that once when he got bored in kindergarten he just
left the campus walked the short distance away where he was sure that his
brother David was doing some lawn maintenance
Jane kept on healing and fighting weight gain later to be discovered
caused by a drug she was taking. She was always taking the kids to one place or
another. It was great for her and me to head to Frankenmuth for some Zehnder’s
chicken. She probably saved her neighbor’s life. One day little 4 year old Amy
came over from next door crying “My mommy needs you !” Jane hurried over to
discover that her Mom had, in fact, attempted suicide brought on by post-partum
depression. Her life was saved.
A few years ago Jane and I revisited our home there-on Nixon St. We were
thrilled to see the two little evergreen trees that Tim had planted. They were
now (50 years later) fully grown and adding a stately presence to the entire
back yard.
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