Friday, October 14, 2016

REFLECTION ON A LONG AND BLESSED LIFE NO.39: BEGINNING MY CAREER AS AN EDUCATOR


 When the day after Labor Day arrived in 1950 I was ready for my first day of teaching. I had decorated the classroom. I made sure the desks, which were bolted down to 2 x 4 runners, were all perfectly aligned. I had carefully prepared a set of watercolors and brushes for each student. I had tried to memorize the names of the 32 students in my room in grades 4-8. I had bought extra gel for the clumsy purple ditto copy trays. Of course, I was somewhat nervous but also quite confident. After all I myself had gone to grades 1-8 in a two room Lutheran school. I had had a full year of internship teaching grades 1-4. I was excited and ready to roll.

I loved teaching and I loved my kids and I think I did a fair job. Now some 65 years later I remember especially one teaching activity that went very well. Tracy was a town of about 10,000. We did a total classroom project across grade levels. Students got themselves into self-selected groups with each group choosing one aspect of the city to study and report on. The groups included: making a map of the city, meeting with the city’s Director of Recreation, meeting with the Chief of Police, going to the big tomato processing plant, interviewing the editor of the town weekly newspaper etc. Each group did its homework and then reported to the entire classroom. As various city leaders heard how “those kids” from St. Paul’s Lutheran school had interviewed their colleagues there was a very positive reaction.

I used an organization design for teaching that I had learned from my father. Religion, social studies, music, and art were taught to all 5 grades at once. However, reading and arithmetic were taught grade by grade. I had the kids from each grade come to the front of the room, gather around a table and we studied and learned together. Meanwhile the other classes were busy with workbook assignments. We focused on the basics and our kids really excelled way above state and local norms on standardized tests. I think I was reasonably effective but I never did consider classroom discipline to be one of my strengths. We faced the realty of widely different student abilities with not too much trouble Since we were multi-grade the brighter kids could join the grade above them for specific work and the weaker students could get reviews by listening to the lessons taught in the grades below them.

The 1950’s were days when the whole paradigm of Lutheran Church-Missouri Synod schools was changing and my school represented the new realities. We made the switch from when all children in the school were Lutheran to an enrollment predominantly non-Lutheran. We moved from children paying no tuition and all costs being covered by funds from the congregation budget to charging tuition and receiving very little (if any) congregational financial support.  My memory is that our tuition was $10.00 a month.

Fund raising was a pretty new thing for Lutheran schools then but it was central to our financial viability. Thus at least once a month I was joined by boy students as we used a borrowed truck and went throughout the city collecting newspaper which, of course, we sold. My other fund-raising methods were not at all creative and not very effective. I now often wish I could go back to those days and do a better job.

When I compare my experience with my colleagues of today I see great differences. All my students were white and native speakers of English. Pick-up permission slips from feuding divorced parents was unheard of. Peanut butter allergies were not yet on the agenda. Cell phones and computers were distant dreams. It was usually assumed that if a student and a teacher had a conflict the teacher was in the right. Mandatory state tests were nowhere on the horizon for non-public schools.  “Titles” were names of books and unrelated to government programs or requirements. LGBTQ were random letters of the alphabet.

I was accountable to a School Board made up of congregation members (all male). They were very supportive (though I had to agree to disagree with the chairman of the Board who refused to have his 3 children in our school vaccinated against any disease).

Naturally, I have some regrets: I had a few kids with some relatively serious behavior/adjustment problems and I wish I had been more helpful. I did not teach enough creative writing. I wish I had challenged the brightest kids more. As a principal I was seriously lacking in providing support to my teaching colleagues. During my years at Tracy I had two first-year teachers. I do not think I visited their classrooms for even one day. I did not seek classroom aides for them. The best I can say for myself (and that is not much) is that I was available to them and stood behind them when they had any issue with an unhappy parent.

The boys in the school would probably be in agreement that the best thing that Teacher Kieschnick brought to their school was that (for the first time) the school basketball team had uniforms and was actually allowed to play a game or two against another school team. They and their female classmates would also applaud that sometimes when we got into really close soccer games recess time just kept getting extended until one team of the other scored the winning goal. And I do hope and pray that every one of my former students went away convinced (and still believing today) that God loves them.


As it turned out, I ended up spending only 6 years of my over 50 years as an educator being a classroom teacher. I enjoyed it and to this day have nothing but the greatest respect for the “ordinary” classroom teachers who just happen to be among the most important change agents on this planet.

Thursday, October 6, 2016

REFLECTION ON A LONG AND HAPPY LIFE NO. 38: TRIPS

Graduate work at summer school passed very quickly. Then it was time to head out to St. Paul Lutheran Church and School in Tracy, California for my church-assigned duties. My memory is that the congregation offered to pay my bus fare from my home in Texas to Tracy. I chose to go by a route other than bus. As I did quite often, I checked the newspapers and found a car that needed to be delivered to California: a beautiful two-toned brand new Pontiac. A friend from Texas joined me. We went from Chicago to Central Texas to San Francisco all without incident other than one stop by the Highway Patrol in Arizona. I think they had seen me speed down a long hill but were too far behind me to track the exact speed. So I was stopped, the officer examined my papers, I told him about my “sacred call “and he wished me well and sent me on with his blessings (and no ticket).

This was my first of quite a few trips between Texas and the Midwest, always by some means other than public transportation or my own car. I had been at St. Paul’s school only a few months when the PTA very graciously raised money as a gift to allow me to visit my fiancé, Jane, who was teaching in Michigan. I always remember Mr. B telling the parents “I know Mr. K. Let’s not buy him a ticket; instead let’s just give him the cash. I bet he will come up with an alternative plan.” He was right. I joined a group of men (found through a newspaper ad) and again we drove straight through. I did have one stress-filled hour. We arrived in Salt Lake City around 1:00 am. Of course, there were no freeways in those days and we needed to drive through the heart of the city. The driver said, “Watch me. I am going to drive through this whole city without stopping once,” And he did, though it meant just running through the many red lights we encountered. The Mormon gods were with us and we made it safely.

After a wonderful Christmas with Jane, a friend who was the coach at Concordia College in Oakland found a car in Detroit that needed delivering to San Francisco. Again we drove without spending a night in any hotel. However, we did have a New Year’s Eve incident. Just after midnight a car was suddenly stopped in front of us in the middle of the road and another car was coming up the mountain to meet us. We had a minor collision. The highway patrol arrived but they said they were too busy on this New Year’s Eve to write up an accident report. They ordered us to go the county court house in the next city and write the report. We went to the courthouse arriving around 2:00 am. We had to wait for the lone official there to first perform a wedding ceremony for a couple which had decided at midnight that they wanted to get married at once. The other party involved in our accident never arrived (we think the driver of that vehicle actually did not possess a valid drivers license). We went on our way and got stopped in California (maybe we were speeding) but then it got interesting. We told the officer about our deal on delivering the car. He asked for the name of the company to which we were headed etc. etc. etc. Then I showed him the papers. “WOW !” he said. ”You are lucky. This guy is famous for bringing cars into California illegally and changing registrations in an improper way. You are one lucky gentleman. I will not confiscate this vehicle.” And he sent us on our way rejoicing.

There are other stories of this kind of travel. Jane and I drove a vehicle from Ft. Wayne to Muskogee, OK because our new car had been nearly totaled on the way to the wedding and had to be repaired in Muskogee. Once we drove an almost new   Cadillac from Detroit to Orange County. The air conditioner went out in the middle of that summer heat, but again we made it.

They say that the journey is as important as the destination. But my destination was the more important because it was time for me assume my exciting new role as teacher of grades 4-8 and principal of St. Paul’s Lutheran School and I was rarin’ to go

Saturday, October 1, 2016

REFLECTIONS ON A LONG AND BLESSED LIFE NO. 37: GRADUATE SCHOOL

 Graduation was great. Having Mother and Dad there from Texas was greater. Having Jane accept my engagement ring was the greatest. And 4 days later I began the next chapter; graduate school. Graduate school had always been on my long-range plan but I had no idea as to when I would start that. Dean of Students Huegli had other ideas. In my college senior year I was student body president and Dean Huegli and I met for a full hour every day Monday through Friday. Shortly before graduation he told me “You are going to grad school and you will start this summer.” He received his Ph.D. from Northwestern U. and that is where he wanted me to go. So I followed his orders and applied. It seemed like I had a somewhat reserved response from Northwestern. Then suddenly I received new communications not only welcoming me, but urging me to come. Apparently Dean Huegli had made some contact.

When I told him I had no financial resources he again stepped up. He arranged for me to live on campus at Concordia (at no cost) and work on campus facilities upkeep during the summer. When I needed course fees I approached my cousin Ben Jacob. He came through (all be it reluctantly) and loaned me $100.00.00 with me paying him back $10.00 a month for 12 months. I figured that was a pretty high interest rate but I paid that and Ben accepted the full $120.00. In fact I paid it off ahead of tim out of my $180.00 month salary.

I studied psychology and had excellent courses. Two were outstanding. One was called Human Personality and I remember getting certified to administer and interpret the Minnesota Multiphasic Personality Inventory. Another course was Diagnosing and Treating Mental Disorders. Tough and very good. One important lesson I learned: Work very carefully and long on the symptoms and only then make a diagnosis.

A couple of minor aspect of life during those summer months: The first was that I had a very enjoyable time playing summer softball. The quality of pitching in the games was very low and at the end of the summer I was informed that I had won the batting title with an average of well over 400. (As I said, the level of pitching was very low.) The other incidental has to do with one of the two gentlemen with whom I shared rides to and from the university. That friend’s name was Don Dinkmeyer who was working on his doctorate in psychology.  Twenty-five years later we “met” again under some stressful circumstances. He had developed and was aggressively marketing a parent-training program and called it Systematic Training for Effective Parenting (STEP). It was based very heavily on the PET skills. In fact it had so many almost exact concepts, words and steps as PET (I was then working with PET) that we seriously considered legally charging him for plagiarism and copyright infringement. Eventually we decided against that and I am glad we never had to jointly appear in court.

Summer was soon over and I needed to get to Tracy, California to begin my teaching ministry, the next phase of my long and blessed life.





Tuesday, September 20, 2016

REFLECTIONS ON A LONG AND BLESSED LIFE N0. 36 GRADUATION/ENGAGEMENT

 I know that I graduated from college even though when I just now searched for it I could not find my diploma. But I found the diploma for my wife Jane and she and I graduated together. And her diploma clearly lists our graduation date as June 9,1950. Frankly I remember very little about the ceremony or the words of the speaker.

I suspect that the reasons my diploma and graduation ceremony are not clear is because that date was more important to me for a different reason. That is the day I gave and Jane accepted her engagement ring. The ring itself has it own little history. My parents had met, admired Jane and were very pleased about our relationship. They knew we hoped to be married. They also knew that I was a flat-broke student who could not afford to buy an engagement or wedding ring. So my dad had a proposal. The Lutheran “teacherage” in which they lived outside Walburg Texas had about 10 acres of pasture around it. Dad offered and I bought for $10.00 a newborn heifer calf. It pastured on the grass and after about 10 months it was sold at auction for the wonderful price of $110.00! So I had $100.00 with which to buy an engagement ring.

Fortunately Jane’s mom and dad also approved of our relationship and when I visited with them the Easter before our graduation her mother wisely suggested that I spend a little time with some very good friends of theirs who happened to own a jewelry shop. And there I found it: a one--quarter karat gold solitaire engagement ring! Cost: $100.00.To me it was as amazing and beautiful as any million dollar giant sparkler.

The time and moment of me giving the ring to Jane does not reflect well on my romancing skills. It was a couple hours before graduation. I was saying, “see you” to Jane as she went to her dorm room to put on her graduation gown. I handed her the ring and said “Here is a little something for you.” Of course, when she got to her room and opened the package she screamed and all on the floor came to gush and admire.

I now have some regret that I did not handle this in a manner more worthy of her. I wish I had formally asked her to become m wife. That formality never occurred. We just grew into it. I had, however, very formally asked Jane’s dad for permission to marry his daughter. In fact I did that just an hour before I handed her the engagement ring.

As mentioned above, we then went to the graduation ceremonies. After that we did an unusual thing: We all went out for a late dinner at Nieman’s Restaurant on North Avenue with her parents, grandmother and my folks. This was unusual because we were both so broke we simply could never go out for a nice dinner and it was unusual, because my mother actually joined in the celebration by drinking a cocktail, another first. And, of course it was the formal announcement of our engagement It was all great.

It is now more than 66 years since that graduation/engagement event. The ministries made possible because I have that college degree and because Jane accepted that ring have been wonderfully blessed, amazingly interesting, and still going on at a fairly respectable pace!


Tuesday, September 13, 2016

REFLECTIONS ON A LONG AND BLESSED LIFE NO.35 CALL /JOB ASSIGNMENT

 Like at every other student at my college I was there to prepare to serve as a teaching minister of The Lutheran Church-Missouri Synod. We knew that if we were certified for service we would receive our “assignment” from the church through the school’s placement office. This assignment was to a teaching position in a specific Lutheran school. Our Director of Placement was Dr. Albert Maurer. As part of the process each of us graduates did have a one-on-one interview with him regarding our “placement”. He was very clear that while he might listen to our ideas and wishes, the responsibility for our first position rested with “the church” not with us.

I explained that I was eager to serve. It did not make much difference what grade level I was assigned. I explained that I could not serve as a church musician but all other options were open. My assumption was that I would be assigned to a congregation in the state of Texas. Texas is where I was proudly from. Most Texans were assigned back to congregations in Texas.

The day of assignments arrived. About 150 of gathered in Room 105 of the Administration Building. I do not even remember that the occasion opened with a word of prayer. The Placement Director had a big pile of envelopes that contained the info for where each of was to go.

Our assignment came after a meeting with the Placements Directors of the two LCMS teachers college with the appropriate Director of Schools from the various Districts of the church. Each of those District Directors made their case for their respective vacancies and then an “assignment of candidates” was negotiated

I dutifully awaited the calling of my name, then went up and took an envelope. I hastily opened it. The assignment stared me in the face “St. Paul Lutheran School, Tracy, California, teacher of Grades 4-8 and principal of the school. Additional assignments: Director of Youth Ministry, assistance with Sunday School, remuneration: $200.00 per month. The school was only 4 years old. Total enrollment about 70 in grades 1-8. The other teacher was Mrs. Rosa Bush, wife of the congregation pastor.

This assignment was fine with me. I was surprised it was not to Texas, and that I was to serve as principal but was quite naive as to what the duties of the principal were and so was not overwhelmed by that.

More important: where would my girl friend (soon to be my fiancé) Jane be assigned? As I recall we were seated in alphabetical order and I had to wait until all had received their documents. Then Jane and I hurriedly met and disclosed to each other where we were headed. Jane was assigned Grades 1 and 2 at Peace Lutheran School in Saginaw Michigan. (She had been requested by name by the principal of that school and by the Superintendent of Schools for the Michigan District, Sam Roth,  who was very influential and almost always got the persons any school in his District sought.

So that was it and that is where we served, I in California and Jane in Michigan. She served there for only one year. Then we married and the two of us shared our ministry, first in Tracy, then around the world for more than 65 years.

As I reflect on this whole process I feel okay about it. We trusted the Holy Spirit and the responsible church people of the day. And I think everything worked out just the way it was supposed to!